Over the last few months, I’ve been awed by the outpouring of love, grace, and kindness from around the world in response to the news of my diagnosis. I’ve seen people respond with sensitivity, kindness, and that perfect word at the perfect time as if breathed by the Spirit of God. People’s generosity, kindness, and encouragement have brought me tears of great joy.
But I’ve also been floored, heartbroken, and crushed by some of the responses. These people may have meant well, but the damage they left in their wake is heartbreaking.
The worst part is that I know I’ve been guilty of uttering such awful things myself.
Perhaps we can learn, together, to respond with compassion, a word whose roots can be translated, “to suffer with.”
Here are 3 of the worst things you can say to someone battling cancer or any kind of adversity and what you can say instead: [Tweet this]
1. I’ll Do Anything to Help.
This popular response is thrown around like confetti whenever someone faces adversity, but most of my friends going through a tough time have been heartbroken by this false promise.
I know that’s hard to hear, but I’ve done it, too. I’ve made the well-meaning promise and completely dropped the ball.
Often, anything doesn’t include:
- Taking five kids on a particular weekend.
- Driving and with someone during a chemo treatment that lasts 13 hours and requires a 5-hour follow up the next day.
- Scrubbing a house from top to bottom every week.
- Helping pay off a $5000 medical bill.
The asks and needs in seasons of great adversity are epic, and most people are ill prepared to do the anything it takes. One friend battling his own adversity admitted, “I’ve learned to tell ask my friends who say they’ll do anything, ‘What does anything look like to you?’ If they don’t quantify their anything, I’ll be hurt and disappointed.”
Rather than making the false promise that you’ll do anything, simply ask, “What can I do to help?”
That way you can decide if it’s something you can or cannot do.
The person may not have an answer at the time. Ask again in two weeks. And again in two weeks. And every two weeks for as long as it takes.
Offer a few humble suggestions. Perhaps a gift card or a house cleaning. Perhaps they need the oil in their car changed. Perhaps they could use an afternoon of babysitting. Gently make suggestions, and do whatever is in your power to meet specific requests.
2. Been There, Done That!
“Been there, done that!” is a fine phrase to use for activities like shopping on Black Friday, visiting the Empire State Building, and taking a factory food tour in your hometown.
Nothing about great adversity, pain, suffering, or loss should be described as, “Been there, done that!” The expression is dismissive, hurtful, and unhelpful. Christ never looked at anyone and said, “Been there, done that.” He chose the way of compassion and entered into people’s suffering.
The better response: “I (or someone I loved) faced a similar challenge and I’m so sorry. Let me know if there are any specific was I can support you during this time.”
Remember every adversity is different. Even if two houses burn down side by side, the losses will always differ because of the contents. The crisis we face will impact each of us in different ways.
Rather than assume a crisis is impacting someone else the same way it’s impacted you, make time to hear the person’s story if they’re willing to share. Gently ask questions. Listen. Choose to be with the person and love with them the compassion of Christ.
3. Silence.
We were warned that people would disappear from our lives. After the initial flood of responses, we were tempted to think, “That’s not true!” Then silence arrived. The warning proved true.
I think of names and faces of those I’ve known, loved, and even worked with for many years who have never said a word. I know they know. They know I know. Yet all I hear is silence.
I reached out to a childhood friend. Someone who I’ve known for more than 20 years, someone who I sat with as we waited for the news of her father’s death. I sent her an email with the news of the diagnosis. And heard nothing.
I sent her a text, “Did you receive my email?”
I’ll never forget her response: “I did and have thought about you everyday since and what I wanted to say. I am in shock, and yet I don’t know. I’m scared. And I love you. And I want to come and beat up the cancer for you.”
My sweet friend felt what so many feel—unsure of what to say, they say nothing at all.
Understandable.
But the silence hurts.
What do you say to those facing great adversity? [Tweet this]
Here are the seven magical words:
“I’m thinking of you and praying for you.” [Tweet this]
Those words never get old. Those words don’t do any damage. Those words communicate that you’re with the person in the midst of their storm. Those words can bring healing and hope and encouragement.
Just yesterday my sweet friend, Jonathan, sent the following email:
“Today…
You are loved.
You are thought of.
You are prayed for.”
Perhaps those are the best possible words you can ever say to someone facing great adversity. Print them out. Post them on your fridge. Send them to everyone you know who is facing a great battle.
Don’t wait another moment to end the silence and let the people you love know they’re loved.
*Original photo found, here.
Today and every day…you are thought of, prayed for, held up, and loved.
Margaret,
Thank you for this article. I responded when you made your announcement but have remained silent since. Forgive me. But also, thank you. In your humble wisdom you’ve reminded me (without shame) that I still owe words to the husband of a dear friend we lost recently. While my devastation is unlike his, I was fully present during her battle but silent in the aftermath. You’ve reminded me that silence is as destructive as the wrong word – but at least in the wrong word he can know I care. I’m off to plan that conversation but not before letting you (and Leif) know that you are always in my prayers. God will pull you through this fire and for those of us in Christ Jesus, we have a great hope and peace beyond understanding because we truly can feel the cradle of our Master’s arms.
In His love,
Felecia
Margaret, praying for you and Leif again. May God give you some sweet surprise to lift your spirits and bless you with a deep sense of His presence, care and love.
I am so glad you wrote this article. We all need to know these things, how to respond, how to show our care and concern. Please continue to share anything that touches upon your heart into the articles you write. As a Christian woman going thru a hard season, you have the calling to help us all know how to help and be compassionate like Christ. My prayers are with you and your family. God bless you as He keeps you in this time.
Thanks so much for sharing this Margaret. I am prying for you.
My friends name is diane rivas @ stage 4 cancer. Hard to pray n difficult so ask god to give me words of faith, love n hope. This helped me so much in not saying the wrong thing. Thank u n pls pray 4 me. God bless you
Thank you Margaret…Today you truly are loved and soooo respected. Today you truly are thought of – as one of the most Godly and wisest people I have ever met. And you are prayed for…Thank you for teaching me so much, sharing so much and making the world a better place….God bless you today and every day…
Good Morning Margaret,
Today… you are loved. You are thought of. You are prayed for. I do think of you and pray for you daily. Yesterday our Sunday School class began “Scouting the Divine.” Donna (my ME travel companion and our fellow mountain climber) is leading us. Our class has done many studies and never a female author. Donna thought it was time for a change! Loving your study once again. Best to you and Leif.
Love, Beth
How well you unfolded truth, for the ones not on a journey they never asked for, desired, or imagined. As a family who lost so suddenly, our healthy, Godly week shy of 19 yr old, in a college $$$ job accident….all of what you shared, is true. And, yes, I as well understood that once I was that naive person. In the innocent time. My hope, is that by lovingly revealing truth, the bride of Christ could ditch myths ( is “the first year is the hardest” which is a lie, from the pit of , ya, there.) and BE the church . Love by shoveling, with raking…stay the course….. love with action. Show up. Paste no scripture on the wounded, apply it to self, and GET Jesus first…let His spirit within us lead, Listen to the nudges and put hands and feet in motion. No lethargy. No invisible “friends”. No to clichés, they belong in Hallmark cards, not spoken from ourvlips….to somehow absolve us from caring in fact and action.
Lifting up you and your family today, Deb. And sending a huge hug your way.
Thank you for sharing your heart with us. One of the many things that I love about you is your transparency…a word I often use to describe your writing style to others. I think I’ve already told you that your tweets are set to arrive on my phone as a text message, so I am reminded often to pray for you. Please forgive me for not TELLING you regularly that I am praying for you!
Thank you for sharing things to say and not to say. I know I’ve been guilty of the silence, not knowing what to say. When my oldest daughter died, I had a newborn baby. Some of the nicest things I remember was how people would come to the house and just be with me. It really showed God’s love to me in a way I had never experienced before.
Since I can’t make it to Alaska today I will send my love and my prayers to you asking the Almighty One, the All-Sufficient One to be with you and hold you in His arms today.
Birdie
I’ve been praying for you since your journey began. October 31 will be 8 years for me, since I had both breasts removed because of cancer. At this time I have 6 friends all going through various stages of treatment.
It is true that people don’t know what to say, or they don’t say anything at all. For me silence is the hardest. My precious daddy died in mid August. He had made his home with us over 11 years. We were very close. In the beginning I had a few phone calls and cards, now, no one asks how I am–only silence, it’s as if nothing happened. I know that this is not a response of maliciousness, but life goes on for them.
Praying for you today, sweet Annette. May you feel the soft pinch of God’s presence today.
Sorry, not Alaska, but Colorado. I was also thinking and praying for Leslie Leyland Fields in AK.
As a fellow sufferer – amen, amen and amen. And I echo the silence is the worst. It makes you fee so alone. During our journey we had to ask our church family, who we dearly love, to stop asking “How is Tom?” upon seeing me every Sunday morning by myself…at that point many people just stopped communicating with us. A few dear friends came up with the beautiful greeting “It is so nice to see you today”. It made me feel loved and didn’t point out the blaringly obvious – which was I was there without Tom…and already feeling lonely. The silence was definitely the worst!! I love you Margaret and think of you and Leif almost everyday and pray for you! Hugs!
Thank you for writing another inspiring article. I fought and beat lymphoma eight years ago, and praise God every day for the incredible healing path I have been on. The fourth comment that is often said to calm one’s fears when waiting for a diagnosis is “I’m sure it is nothing. Everything will be fine.” That always took the floor right out from under my feet! You have touched more people than you will ever know, keep on writing!
Yes…why do we go silent…last night my niece had to walk a most painful place with her husband who is putting her through a brutle divorce…her whole family was silent to her pain through this occasion…they speak of God being gloried…but never …I am sorry for this painful place you have to be in right now ….it is almost like being doubly wounded in one night…my her husband and his bully words…and by the silence of her family ….both cut deep…thanks for the reminder…and for being willing to share as one who is right in the middle of the battle…continued prayers…
Praying for your family and your sweet niece. May God’s presence be overwhemingly known in the midst of this.
Thanks for the well written words, number 1 is so true.
The invitation not to be silent in the face of pain and suffering is the invitation to be a blessing by sharing the faith and hope we have in the Living God.
You’re words are a blessing to many,
John
Margaret,
Well said, dear one. I think SO many people out there long to rush in and help, but truly just don’t know what to do or to say when frightening things like cancer, strokes or some personal tragedy show up and take residence in the lives of loved ones and friends — so they make over-the-top offers/promises they cannot hope to keep; they put on a mask and costume of false bravado and flippancy (been there, done that!) to hide their fear and confusion; or they say nothing at all, pretending it’s not happening or that maybe it’ll all just go away.
And sometimes, even disappearing from our lives altogether.
I’ve experienced all of the above when I was on my own cancer journey. And I’m ashamed to say that I’ve even said the same things and reacted the same way towards others.
These are lessons we would all do well to learn and to share with others. I thank you for doing so even now, in such a beautiful way, as you and Leif walk through this dark valley together, with God at your sides. I’ll DEFINITELY be passing this along on my sites and sharing with my friends.
Much love to you, Margaret,
Pam
Thank you! Praying for you and Leif! I am walking with a dear friend thru Pancreatic Cancer, she found out two months ago. I get to sit with her and her husband at the “chemo cabana” as they call it, every Tuesday. She says it is a huge encouragement, I am honored to be there! It is a sweet time together and I am thankful God has made a way for me to be there and for his guidance on what to say! There is a pancreatic cancer walk/run in November and she asked Tim and I to walk with her and her husband. I knew we had to do this, this was a HUGE way to communicate our love and support! Thanks again!
Margaret, you are such a blessing to us. I came to know you through your Wonderstruck study. I was wonderstruck through the entire experience and because of your precious sweet spirit on the video, I feel as though I know you personally. It breaks my heart that you are going through this awful thing called cancer. I lost my 44 year old son to cancer and my heart breaks for you and Leif. God taught me a lot about myself and my faith and about Him throughout that process. And I know that when we all get to Heaven, what a day of rejoicing there will be. I care for you and I am praying God’s grace and mercy on you during this time. Love in Him.
There is so much wisdom in this post, Margaret. Thank you for sharing in the midst of your battlefield. Much love and many continued prayers!
Thank you for sharing this, Margaret. I am praying for you today. My husband is dying of cancer, and the very hardest thing for me right now is the silence and distance of my closest friends. It was similar for me that there was a great outpouring of love and support for a while, but as things have continued on over the last few months, it almost seems as if everyone else has just adjusted to the fact while for me it is different and harder every day as things progress. Just having someone to really talk to, cry with, and/or pray with would be the most encouraging thing right now, but it feels like all of those doors are closed at this time.
R– lifting you up to the Father today. May you be overwhelmed by the love and peace of Christ. Hug to you friend.
Margaret,
I read your website occasionally, I did not realize you had been diagnosed cancer. I am so sorry you are having to go through That ,that this all that entails. i will pray for for you. I love the way you practicle insight hits home with me.
We are at a strange place in our lives.my husband is3 yrs from retirement ans back in our home town after being away 37 yyrs.Our parents need us. my folks are 83 His folks are 90 and just relocated to assisted living. My mom was just diagnosed with Lymphoma and daddy has emphseema(sp) But both are very active In fact, they drove to Cincinnati when we lived there and I was diagnosed with invasive ductal breast cancer.
We have 2 wonderful children one with 3.5 grand children and our son has a 2 monthold..
My cancer is still active and I right now, I just recovred from a broken right foot only to then break my pelvis!!!!I would really like some help,our church is HUGE, but my kids live out of state and now my folks need me and my sister. I am taking radiation and chemo and exhausted, I know Wayne is sick and tied oh eating out,,,,but to me, that not a top priority.He helps out some but his priority list and mine are not even closed.
Unfortunately, either tv,radio, the Bible,audiobooks and/or music are my daily companions. Our church small group was disbanded ( the joined another church.We moved to this house 3 years ago and I am beginning to hate it.
I tried joining the Bible Study then I broke my foot and the calls for assistance were not returned
. I am beginning to hate this house, I am so l0nley. Sunday services are getting easier to miss too. I know this all sounds unbelievable , it is all true. I really am a people person and taught middle school for 11 yrs.I have prayed and prayed and
prayed for a friend. What can I do
Faith and Joy,
Linda Taliaferro
Margaret,
Thank you so much for your boldness in speaking to the needs when suffering. Yes, the silence can be so painful. If you don’t know what to say to a hurting friend, please tell them you love them. I might add a fourth painful thing to say and that would be, “A coworker/friend/relative had what you have and it never interupted their life…you’d hardly even know they had cancer/lost a loved one/were ill.” When I heard that I felt like they were saying, “hey, everyone has problems. Suck it up and move on. Don’t whine about your problems. Just keep it to yourself so it doesn’t trouble me.” It hurt.
Margaret, thank you for your honesty. I hear you and I am praying for you.
Sweet Linda, Sending you a huge hug and lifting you up in prayer. May you feel the love of God wrap around you today as you continue on this difficult journey. Where are you located, Linda?
Hello Linda. Thank you for being so honest in your trouble. Being alone or not having people to walk through it with you must make it harder. I’m on a completely different continent but I’ll love to listen if you want to talk. My name is Mema Ojukwu you could shoot me an email at my first name last name at yahoo.co.uk 🙂 I’ll pray for you too.
Silence can be deafening in the dark places. Love, prayers and may your important words of grace continue to speak to us there.
Love this article Margret. Thank you for writing it!
Thank you Margaret for sharing your heart and feelings of how not to respond. I have thought about these things but didn’t have the heart to talk about it. We lost our 3 year old in June and have had the silent friends that don’t even ask how your doing. It hurts to the core to have someone you know not even mention your child’s name. I don’t understand why this happens. I so appreciate you sharing your heart in the middle of your struggle to kindly remind others that saying something so simple as, “I am thinking of you or praying for you” means so much more. You are a beautiful women and I will pray for you! Love, Amy
Huge hug to you Amy.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I loved hearing you speak at Twin Lakes Church, and appreciate your ministry. I didn’t know about your diagnosis. Thank you for being brave enough to share these insights. I’ve often felt the same way as a divorced mom, but haven’t shared it. Prayers and blessings,
Lisa Smith
Hi Margaret, our Wonderstruck group prays for you every week when we meet, and in between too.
Your article is exactly true. Tho I went through cancer, I still couldn’t have articulated the same thoughts the way you did. Our current trial is unemployment for 7 months and counting, and what looks like an end to my husband’s career, and we find that people have responded the same way. It’s almost as if people are afraid the trial might be contagious. We have been amazed at the people, including family, who have expressed little to no support. God is still in charge, though, and we are trying to confidently keep walking into that hope and future He has for us.
I’m grateful for you!
I’m so sorry for your pain, Margaret. I know that silence can make things even more painful. Continuing to pray for you for strength, healing and that God would hold you close, as you walk this journey.
silence can come from both directions. when my brother lost his son he chose to use silence as his language of choice because of a 20 year grudge he held against my husband. would have walked through this white hot pain with him if he had let us.
Thank you Margaret!! Wise words well said!! We continue to pray for total healing for you, as well as strength for each day!!
I am sadden to hear the news of your cancer. I pray you experience God’s presence with you as you take this difficult journey. Please know that my Bible Study group (WOW- Women of the Word) is currently studying Wonder Struck and we have been challenged and blessed. Thank you for your insights in God’s Word! Blessings dear lady!
Love, Linda
Thank you so much for taking the time to post this helpful information! I had the privilege of hearing you speak at the aacc conference and have been praying for you and enjoying your books. I appreciate your wisdom!
Well said Margaret, thank you for being so honest.
…Ohhhh dear one!…Yes, YEs…YESSSSSS praying for you…some women in Santa Fe, New Mexico of Christ Church..as we gather each week and ‘being with you”…via DVD and books!
We are a group of women…ages 90 to 12 years old…don’t you love that??….we are much blessed with your insights, knowledge of the Word of God…and your love for HIM!
There are @ 16 of us…and we are in your book..”Scouting the Divine”…WE LOVE IT…and
WE LOVE YOU…and LEIF!
We wish were all closer to give you a BIG HUG…so consider yourselves…HUGGED!!!!!
We are intercessing for you, sweet one…and the ‘battle belongs to the Lord’….trusting in healing..and quick recovery.
We will try to get a picture out to you….
Many thoughts…much love to you dear sister in Jesus,
‘the gang’ in Santa Fe..XO
Margaret, thank you so much for sharing this. I don’t know how I missed the news of your diagnosis, but it may have been that my wife was in the middle of her fight after being diagnosed in March. Your insight about every adversity being different is absolutely spot on and, in addition, every cancer diagnosis, treatment plan, and journey has it’s own uniqueness as well. Even if you’ve been through it, you may be able to relate, but you can’t know exactly what someone is going through.
It’s been a joy though to meet so many amazing ladies fighting the fight with grace, beauty, humor, and (most of all) hope. Know that we’re praying for you as treatment continues and that we know God will use this to shape you, but it does not have to define you. You are a truly loved child of God and a dear sister, even to those of us you will never meet.
If hearing about Amy’s journey would be of benefit, you can read about it at http://thisdoesnotdefineme1.blogspot.com/
Hope & Peace
Praying for you, dear sister in Christ. This fall I am participating in your Wonderstruck study and became aware of your diagnosis close to the time we started. And I prayed for you. What I did not realize was that I would soon be battling a similar journey. At 30 years old, and with two young daughters, I am now fighting a somewhat rare and aggressive form of cancer. I commit to praying for you more. Thank you for your ministry.
Love,
Rachel
(((((((Margaret))))))))…you are loved, thought of, and prayed for…. May Abba overwhelm you with His presence, cradle you in His arms, and heal you with His gentle touch. <3
Thank you sweet Linda.
Margaret, I stumbled onto your website today, not knowing how I even got here. But there are no coincidences with God.
First of all, I love your writing style. I believe writing will be therapeutic as you walk through this. Even though we have never met, I can tell that you love the Lord and He loves you. And, though we may never meet, I can and will pray for you. Your frank remarks in this article have already helped me and others to be a good friend to those who experience cancer.
Secondly, your article was timely for me because when I went to get my hair cut on Wednesday my hairdresser told me she had been diagnosed with breast cancer two days prior. She just turned 40 years old. I was at a loss for words, but I listened to every word she said, cried with her, told her I love her as God does too, and promised to pray for her. Thank God that the Holy Spirit stopped me from quoting scripture, making unrealistic promises, or remaining silent. Thanks again Margaret.
When I was growing up, I went through the difficult loss of my father in a plane crash. During this time I had an amazing friend who stuck by me. Her mere presence and directed and distracting activities (a doughnut run – during the memorial gathering! it was great!) were what helped me feel normal during a time in my life when nothing was normal – you’re not supposed to loose your dad in a plane crash when you are 15 – that’s not normal! When the rest of the world was running away because they didn’t know how to react, my friend was always there making each day as normal as possible because she didn’t treat me any differently. It was amazing and wonderful. I carried this forward in my life and have done my best to help other friends who have suffered sudden, tragic life losses. It was a tremendously helpful example to follow.
More recently, I received news of a good friend battling cancer. Margaret, I want to thank you for putting into words so directly what not to say or do. Initially I wasn’t able to respond to my friend’s circumstances the way I would have liked to. More recently I made efforts to do better, but I’ve gotten the sentiment that I was a day late and a dollar short. I am heart broken to read from you how I hurt my friend.
My lesson I have learned from this is that I haven’t been fair in the past when I have gotten upset at other people’s reactions to tragic circumstances. I shouldn’t have passed judgement on their words or actions because I didn’t know from where their reaction was coming. Some people didn’t say or do the right thing at the right time, and that may have been based on their past experiences or it may have been coming out of what was/wasn’t going on in their life at that moment. What they said or did was difficult to hear or understand, but I now know and believe it was the best they could do at the time, and they meant well.
I am so sorry.
I followed the link off of your article to Jenn Rowe’s story and thought she beautifully and compassionately stepped through her learning processes about her friends’ reactions to her tragic news. http://ramblingrowes.wordpress.com/2013/11/24/the-silent-friend/
Thank you so much for the opportunity to grow and learn, that’s what life is about.
Thank you for sharing about your battle with cancer. Reading the part about friends was particularly interesting. I was diagnosed on March 19, 2014 with one of the worst cancers a person can get. People from work and church all responded as you first described with offers of help, telling us “we’ll be there for you.” I watched this happen when I was a young boy and my father died. People flocked to her/our side saying “how tragic” and “call if you need anything, we’re here for you.” That was short lived, and by the time my mom could recover enough to realize what help she needed, nobody was available. The realization that those people weren’t there was like another loss of its’ own
A few months ago I was diagnosed with a terrible cancer. The same thing happened for my wife and I, an outpouring of good intentions. I describe what happens as being like a train crash. When it happens a group of people rush in. Some help, some watch, some are frozen from not knowing what to do.
As time goes by, the helpers tire, the watchers become bored and many turn around and walk away. I knew and expected that when I received my diagnosis and started to tell people. But, I am finding that, as with a train wreck, new people come to the scene. I believe people realize they are helpless to “fix” the situation, some people are o.k. with that, some aren’t. I realize that as my cancer continues that cycle will continue, and I’m fine.
I wish people knew how appreciative I am to get out of the house, sit at a coffee shop and talk about anything. Sometimes it’s talking through cancer related issues, sometimes it’s fishing, or camping. The real gift is the time and compassion.
I pray your battle with cancer has gone well.
David, praying for you and your family during this difficult time! Love your point that “the real gift is time and compassion.” Thank you for sharing your experiences!
I enjoyed the honesty in this article. I respectfully disagree with one of the concepts. When people simply say ” Today you are thought of, prayed for and loved” I tend to wonder why that love is never expressed with action. I know there is great power in prayer and do appreciate it when I request it for a difficult situation. I also believe we must put feet to our faith and ask if there are specific needs we have the ability to meet such as the ones you’ve expressed, e.g., driving someone to the dr., babysitting, cooking, cleaning house and gift cards. It’s easy to say you’ll pray for someone but holding their hand and praying with them shows them that you truly mean what you say. If we have time to shop for new purses we don’t need or play tennis, we have time to help someone who is walking through a life threatening health issue. It would be nice to ask if the sick friend would like to go with us when we get a manicure or pedicure and do something for them that lifts their spirits a little. If they are bedridden, be there for them whenever you can and they are up for visitors. Sometimes when someone is in the throws of disease they don’t have the energy to hold a conversation. You can just drop by with a healthful food item they have acknowledged they can eat and see if anything needs to be done, such as laundry, dishes, sweeping, etc. Like you said, all the flowers and cards received in the beginning are also appreciated far into their healing journey.
The worst thing that anyone said to me when I had cancer came from my only sibling, my sister. She rolled her eyes and told me that people get cancer every day now and it’s no longer a big deal. Wow……..that one hurt!
So good, Margaret. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing this, Margaret. You’re an inspiration to me. I tell all my friends about you? I’ll pray too! And I’m with you. I love you Margaret. Thanks for being amazing
Thank you for the kind words, Mema! Hugs!
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