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Why I Wore a Dress For the First Time Since My Wedding Day: Meeting the Maasai

Margaret — May 22, 2013 — 4 Comments

Why I Wore a Dress For the First Time Since My Wedding Day: Meeting the Maasai

I don’t know why I gave up wearing dresses, perhaps because I never wore many dresses growing up on a sailboat.

I like dresses. I just don’t buy them very often.

But I knew I needed something special to wear to meet my sponsored child, Nairesiae.

A week before we left for Africa, I found the perfect black dress and a red scarf.

It wasn’t until after we arrived that I discovered my sponsored child is Maasai. The color of the tribe is red.

Wonderstruck, indeed.

We drove more than two hours from Nairobi on pitted, punctured roads to the project. Singing and dancing awaited us. Continue Reading…

5 Things Your Sponsored Child Can Never Tell You

Margaret — May 20, 2013 — 9 Comments

IMG_8109 copy As we’ve spent the week in Kenya, I’ve had the privilege of getting a close up look at the work of Compassion. I can literally walk into any project, point at any kid, and ask to see their file—a thick, 3-ring binder filled with monthly, quarterly, and yearly reports on the child’s health, academic progress, spiritual growth, goals for life, and observations/needs from home visits.

I’ve been given free reign to ask anything, which is dangerous for someone like me, because I’m unafraid to ask any and every question. What is haunting me from this week is that I’ve gotten a glimpse into things your sponsored child simply can’t tell you: Continue Reading…

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What Happens When You Let Your Husband Crash Your Blog?

Margaret — May 19, 2013 — 2 Comments

What Happens When You Let Your Husband Crash Your Blog?

A special post by the love of my life, my super hot hubby, Leif (pronounced lay-f).

Passing through the slum, our van paused in front of a gray metal gate. Voices were already singing on the other side. We pulled into the courtyard of the church that hosted Compassion’s Child Survival Program.

Two lines of women danced and sang to greet us. Children peeked from around their skirts, staring at us “mzungu” – Swahili for white people.

As I stepped out of the van a little boy, dressed all in red, came out from behind his mother, walked straight up to me, and raised his arms in the universal sign for “pick me up”.

My heart melted as I looked at this handsome child who wasn’t afraid to interact with someone so completely different when all of the other children stayed with their mothers. Continue Reading…

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Giveaway: More or Less: Choosing a Lifestyle of Excessive Generosity @shinabarger @David_C_Cook

Margaret — May 18, 2013 — 54 Comments

This week, we’re giving away THREE copies of my friend, Jeff Shinabarger’s new book, More or Less: Choosing a Lifestyle of Excessive Generosity. Jeff is a social entrepreneur, experience designer, cofounder of the Q event, and creative director at Catalyst. He is also the founder of GiftCardGiver.com and Plywood People, an innovative community addressing social needs through creative services. He and his family live in Atlanta. Continue Reading…

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The Great Debate: Can You Bring Heaven to Hell?

Margaret — May 17, 2013 — 9 Comments

The church property where the Compassion program is hosted is an oasis. The small lot feels expansive compared to the cramped quarters of the slum. The entrance is marked by trees, vegetation and pink hibiscus; a stark contrast to the stench, filth, and garbage just outside the gate. Continue Reading…