Archives For November 2009

Is Yawning Contagious?

Margaret —  November 26, 2009 — 1 Comment

yawning-autism-in-childrenAfter the turkey, the mashed potatoes, the gravy, the cranberry chutney, and the pie, one person at your Thanksgiving gathering will make the inaugural yawn. Will it be you? Will you set the trend or merely be a follower?

Once the yawning commences, someone will blame the tryptophan in the turkey. Another will acknowledge all the hard work that went into preparing the meal. Whatever the cause, it really doesn’t matter. Once one person yawns, it’s hard to stop.

Between 40 and 60 percent of the population find yawning contagious. Yawn. Read the word three times in a row, and you’ll be tempted to do it. If you see or hear someone else yawning, it becomes all the more difficult to resist.

According to the BBC, yawning is an involuntary action we start performing while still in the womb. Most animals on the planet do it–including snakes and fish. Rather than getting you ready for sleep, some scientists believe the the purpose of yawning is to cool the brain so it operates more efficiently and keeps you awake. This helps us stay alert and aware of any potential danger (second helpings, anyone?). Another theory suggests humans use yawning to coordinate sleeping times (nap, anyone?)

Theories abound, but no one knows for sure why yawning is contagious. But don’t lose sleep over it.

This Thanksgiving go ahead and yawn big. Yawn wide. Then, enjoy a long nap!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Photo from here.

cynthia ware

My friend, Cynthia Ware, at The Digital Sanctuary, just wrote posted this excellent piece on “5 Trends Impacting Your Ministry”. Check out the five trends she notes below. Any you agree with? Disagree with? Would like to add to the list?

Shifting demographics. With new generations dreaming of their place at the table, churches must learn to share leadership with younger congregants. Top-down leadership gets rejected by next generation believers in favor of team dynamics. Thus, it’s critical to allow baby boomers to step sideways and share leadership opportunities at every level of church operations.

Technological advances. Social-media technologies provide churches the opportunity to gain greater exposure, but they also require church leadership to be comfortable giving more people a chance to speak out. And we must accept the reality that conversation is going on whether or not we’re participating in it. We’ve known for quite some time that the broadcast model is dead – dialog over monologue, conversation over one person megaphoning, etc. The perceived threat of opening up the backchannel is now a moot concern – since most people have access to cell phone browsers in their pockets.

New ways to collaborate. With the advent of new technologies, churches (and parachurch organizations) can just as easily work with an individual located across the country (or world) as they can through their local parish or church. And today, individuals would rather connect with those they share values with rather than those who are simply geographically close. Furthermore, these connections often morph into movements, networks, alliances, etc. (formerly known as denominations). Collaboration itself is seen as a fundamental value, so isolation/independence is viewed as a dead end.

Greater interest in service. There’s no doubt about it, the next generation speaks the language of volunteerism, but churches need to keep in mind that people have many different reasons for serving and ought to tailor their opportunities to individuals’ interests, gifts and talents. In fact, if your church ministry philosophy is straight, rather than have people to get the jobs done, you have “jobs” to get the people done. Serving is the key to each individual discovering their individual gifts and calling in God, so the fact that it’s en vogue right now to do so is a sure fire win.

Blurred lines between nonprofit and for-profit. There’s a greater emphasis on corporate social responsibility and justice and the emergence of organizations whose primary aim is to “do good”.  These groups are challenging the Church’s postmodern identity. Formerly, it was the church who was to care about society. But the Church fell down on it’s responsibilities in many people’s eyes, creating opportunity for other organizations to rise and take on some of the responsibilities that might have been the Church’s. And, social justice and global environmental concerns aren’t just for rock stars anymore. Masses of conscencious people believe these are stewardship issues. Churches now have opportunities for new partnerships with these groups and can link with everything from recycling organizations to social services. In fact, for many young people, feeding and clothing the planet, eradicating stupid poverty, ending the slave trade, etc. are considered the outward works of their faith.

Understanding these trends can greatly benefit the Church at large. And, can often explain why rather than build a multi-million dollar building, young people are more given to using free technology to facilitate their ministry endeavours, networking and collaborating (even globally if necessary), tithing their time and working to improve the common good, rather than just the good of their own church facility or members.

chutney

Every year, I look forward to Thanksgiving. Everyone has their favorite flavor of the holiday. For some, it’s the mashed potatoes. For others, it’s the pumpkin pie. For still others, it’s the green been casserole.

For me, it’s the cranberry chutney. Our friends, Nick and Heather, shared this recipe and it’s become my fave! Consider giving it a whirl this holiday season:

Soon-To-Be-Famous Cranberry Chutney

2 c Whole cranberries
1 1/3 c Sugar (not so healthy, but needed else the cran will tart you to death. Turkey can’t save you!)
1/2 c Dried chopped figs
1/2 c Dried cherries, strawberries, cranberries and/or blueberries
5 tbsp Apple cider vinegar
1 tbsp Water
1/2 c Dried cherries
2 tbsp Chopped red onion
1 tbsp White rum (apple juice can be substituted.)
1/2 tsp Curry powder
1/2 tsp Ground cinnamon
1/2 tsp Fresh grated ginger root

Directions:
Bring all ingredients to a boil.
Reduce heat to medium and cook 18 minutes or until thickened.
Let cool before serving.
Chutney can also be used as garnish on cream cheese dolloped crackers or as condiment on leftover turkey sandwiches.

Yum. Yum.

What’s YOUR favorite part of the Thanksgiving meal?

 

*Photo courtesy of here

sheep

Some books are finished after the manuscript is delivered to the printer.

Others have just begun.

Scouting the Divine is adventure that in many ways is just beginning. The people I describe in its pages are connected to us. We attended Joe’s (the farmer’s nephew) wedding in August. We spent time with Lynne (the shepherdess) while in Oregon this past week. In fact, Lynne and Tom even brought some of their shepherding community to hear me teach on Scouting the Divine at Living Hope Church. What a delight! I received a handmade wool sheep pin which I will treasure.

On Monday, we shared dinner and warm conversation catching up on all the years events. We visited the flock who were shy at first but became friendly when Lynne pulled out the grain bucket.

One of the most common questions I receive from readers of Scouting the Divine is: “What happened to Piaget?”

In the book, I recount the story of this very sick sheep who almost died. The Scouting the Divine 6-Week DVD BIble study includes more on the story of Piaget’s illness and the personal writings Lynne sent to her shepherding community during Piaget’s touch and go journey.

Monday night I got to see Piaget. Not only is she healthy, but her wool is beautiful! Lynne pulled out Piaget’s recent shearing and though the color of her wool changed through her illness, it’s full, thick, and gorgeous.

After reading Scouting the Divine, one of the members of the shepherding community reminded Lynne of detail about this little sheep that left me in wonder and awe of the whole journey I’ve been on over the last ten years.

“Do you remember Piaget’s mother’s name?” the friend asked.

Lynne thought for a moment, then smiled warmly.

Piaget’s mother’s name was Scout.

Maybe God is more intricately involved in our lives that we can ever imagine.

 

*Photo courtesy of here

Wednesdays with Walter Brueggemann

Margaret —  November 18, 2009 — 1 Comment

 

Walter Brueggemann

It’s no secret that Leif and I have struggled over the years to connect spiritually through our personal times of devotion. In the early days of our marriage, we tried a laundry list of things that simply didn’t work. We began reading Oswald Chambers together on January 1 one year. By January 18, we couldn’t even find the book. We attempted reading the same passages of scripture for discussion, but also felt a sense of awkward disconnect. We tried reading the same books, listening to the same sermons among other practices and yet it always felt forced, unnatural, anything but, well, organic. Those images of spiritual marital bliss faded into the reality that growing spiritually together as a couple takes time, perseverance and hard work.

Over the last few years, we’ve found something that works. (And when you find something that works when it comes to spiritual disciplines, do it and keep on doing it!) We sit on the couch beside each other in the morning and read whatever we’re reading. I’m currently enjoying Bruce K. Waltke’s commentary on Genesis; Leif is making his way through The Rest of God by Mark Buchanan. As we read, we sometimes hmmm or oooh-ahhhh aloud, signifying we’ve found something special, then we share what we’re reading and our responses. It’s natural. Non-forced. The practice works for us. When we’re done, we each read a prayer aloud from Walter Brueggemann’s Awed to Heaven, Rooted in Earth (a book given to us by our special friend Troy Champ). Then we spend time in prayer–for our families, our leaders, our friend, our world, and yes, you!–together aloud.

Brueggemann has a gift to bring hidden thoughts of the soul to light before God. Over the course of the fall, I wanted to share Walter Brueggemann with you every Wednesday. We invite you to join us for “Wednesdays With Walter” as you dive deeper in your own relation with God and prayer life:

Our true home

God before and God behind,

God for us and God for your own self,

Maker of heaven and earth,

creator of sea and sky,

governor of day and night.

We give thanks for your ordered gift of life to us,

for the rhythms that reassure,

for the equilibriums that sustain,

for the reliabilities that curb our anxieties.

We treasure from you,

days to work and nights to rest.

We cherish from you,

days to control and nights to yield.

We savor from you,

days to plan and nights to dream.

Be our day and our night,

our heaven and our earth

our sea and our sky,

and in the end our true home. Amen.